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The
Common Cold - rhino virus - is something you don’t want to give
away, and you don’t want to receive it. To avoid it, you limit
exposure and cleanse your hands regularly.
All
too often the Church has a disease - the disease of playing God.
"Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his
brother or judges him speaks against the law and judges it. When you
judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on
it." James 4:11
Definition of Slander: to speak against one, to criminate, traduce
Law:
Oral communication of false statements injurious to a person's
reputation. A false and malicious statement or report about
someone.
The
verb "do not slander" is written in the present active imperative
- which is to prohibit one from doing it, or if you are doing it -
stop!
In the
Jewish mind, words that were spoken could never be taken back. Like
an irretrievable arrow— once out of your mouth cannot really be
gotten back.
Slander slays three persons: the speaker, the spoken to, and the
spoken of.
"He
who is guilty of slander never can repair it. A false report spreads
where a recantation never reaches, and an accusation flies faster
than a defense." Samuel Johnson (1709-1784)
Three
reasons slander is wrong.
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When we slander we hurt our family and God's creation.
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We
set ourselves above God's law.
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We
displace God's purview God alone judges.
First - We hurt our family and God's creation.
Its
happening in house—a "brother." A brother or sister is a member of
the body of Christ. You don't do that to family! You
also don’t do that to those who were made in God's image.
What
else does the Bible say about slander?
In
Psalm
50 God is addressing the wicked in verse 20: "You speak
continually against your brother and slander your own mother's son."
(Psa
101:5 NIV) "Whoever slanders his neighbor in secret, him will I
put to silence; whoever has haughty eyes and a proud heart, him will
I not endure."
Paul
lists slander in the list of disorders in the dysfunctional New
Testament church:
(2
Cor 12:20 NIV) "For I am afraid that when I come I may not find
you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to
be. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of
anger, factions, slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder."
There
is great necessity for this warning. People are slow to realize that
there are few sins which the Bible condemns as the sin of
irresponsible and malicious gossip. There are few activities in
which the average person finds more delight than this; to tell and
to listen to the slanderous story—especially about some
distinguished person—is for most people a fascinating activity.
Second - We set ourselves above God's law.
It
is a breach of the royal law. Love your neighbor as yourself.
(Lev
19:18 NIV) "Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of
your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD."
(James
2:8 NIV) "If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right."
Obviously a man cannot love his neighbor as himself and speak
slander about him. And when a man breaks a law knowingly, he sets
himself above the law. That is to say, he has made himself a judge
of the law. But a man’s duty is not to judge the law, but to obey
it.
So the
man who speaks evil of his neighbor has appointed himself a judge of
the law and taken to himself the right to break it, and therefore
stands condemned.
Third - We displace God's judgment.
To
slander our neighbor is, in fact, to pass judgment upon him. And no
human being has any right to judge any other human; the right of
judgment belongs to God alone. It is God who is able to save
and to destroy. This great prerogative runs all through Scripture.
Jesus
warns that we should not fear men, "who at the worst can only kill
the body, but should fear him who can destroy both body and soul"
(Matthew 10:28). As the Psalmist said it, "It is to God alone that
the issues of life and of death belong" (Psalm 68:20). To judge
another is to take to ourselves a right to do what God alone has the
right to do; and it is reckless to deliberately take upon one's self
the rights of God.
Finally,
"Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it,
sins." James 4:17
Don't
let yourself get caught up in slanderous gossip. Do the right
thing - don't listen to or repeat
slander. If you're already doing it - STOP!
"Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy,
envy, and slander of every kind."
1 Peter 2:1
Replace
bad behavior with good behavior. Instead of running people
down and condemning them, let God do the judging.
"Now that
you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have
sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the
heart."
1 Peter 1:22
Remember
the guidance taught us in Philippians 4:8:
"Finally, brothers, whatever
is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,
whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent
or praiseworthy--think about such things."
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Sermon delivered by Rev. Larry D. Kirby, July 2008
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